When Fear Sounds Like Litigation: Should We Sue Our Doctor Or Not?

A Reddit post about malpractice, and the quieter medical story beneath it

A couple posted on Reddit asking whether they had a malpractice case related to their child’s birth. They described a delivery that felt rushed and confusing, a newborn who was not developing as expected, and lingering worry that something had been missed. Commenters quickly split into two camps. Some urged them to call a lawyer immediately. Others suggested they focus on medical follow-up first. What stood out was not evidence of negligence, but fear, exhaustion, and a desperate need for certainty.

What follows is not a legal analysis. It is a human one.

The First Question Parents Ask When Something Feels Wrong

When parents sense that their child is not thriving, the ground shifts beneath them. Sleep deprivation, postpartum recovery, and the shock of unmet expectations collide. In that state, the mind looks for a cause.

Malpractice becomes a word that offers structure. It promises answers, accountability, and protection. Asking “Do we have a case?” is often another way of asking “Why is this happening to us?”